I have a mixed relationship with what people would call self-help. I think most of it is bogus nonsense. But there are some people who make sense. The point here is that there aren’t any absolutes. There is usually at least a modicum of value in most things.
First, a quote about failing to achieve goals. This goes with my feelings when I hear some version of “They’re so smart, if they’d only apply themselves.” To me, those are the stupidest people: you possess the ability but don’t have the drive:
In fact, this impatience in dealing with frustration is the primary reason that most people fail to achieve their goals. Unreasonable expectations timewise, resulting in unnecessary frustration, due to a perceived feeling of failure. Achieving the extraordinary is not a linear process. The secret is to show up, do the work, and go home. A blue collar work ethic married to indomitable will.
Second, another quote about how true creativity can be brought to the world:
[Great creative minds] think like artists but work like accountants…
Third, I think that Marcus Aurelius is one of the most impactful thinkers who ever lived. I’ve linked the translation of Meditations that I think is the best:
If anyone can refute me—show me I’m making a mistake or looking at things from the wrong perspective—I’ll gladly change. It’s the truth I’m after, and the truth never harmed anyone.